Therapy for Men

You are holding it together. But something is not right, and you are tired of carrying it alone.

When the Usual Answers Stop Working

You have tried to think your way through it. Maybe you have read the books, listened to the podcasts, made the changes that were supposed to help. Maybe you have already been to therapy and it felt like talking in circles.

Something is still there.

Men come to me in the middle of divorce, grief, burnout, or a slow drift away from the people they love. Some come because the anger is showing up in places it should not. Some come because they feel nothing at all. Most come because they have hit the limit of what they can figure out on their own.

I work with men who want more than coping strategies. If you are ready to actually get to the bottom of something, this is that kind of therapy.

50 min | $150

Why Depth Therapy?

  • Get to the Root, Not the Symptom

    Anger, numbness, and burnout are usually the surface of something older. We find what is actually driving it, so the change holds instead of wearing off in three weeks.

  • A Place to Say the Real Thing

    Most men have never had another man go deep with them. Not their fathers, not their friends, often not their last therapist. You will not shock me, and you will not lose me.

  • Depth Instead of Homework

    No worksheets. No scripts. This is real therapeutic work: your history, your patterns, and what is happening in your life right now right now, taken seriously.

  • Built for How Men Actually Work

    Most therapy was not designed with men in mind. I understand the pressure you are under, what it costs you to be honest, and why “just open up” has never been useful advice.

  • Change That Lasts

    Insight alone does not change much. We work at the level where patterns actually shift, so the results outlive the sessions.

  • Sustainability

    Change is hard work, and you don’t want to come all this way for nothing. Once habits begin to form, we will work on establishing systems that will allow you to keep those changes long after our work together ends.

Nick Higgins, a therapist, seated and smiling in front of framed Matisse and Van Gogh art prints, wearing a brown button-up shirt.

Who This Is For

I work with men navigating:

  • Divorce, separation, or a marriage in trouble

  • Grief and loss

  • Anger that shows up in the wrong places

  • Anxiety, depression, and burnout

  • Shame and low self-worth

  • Trauma, including things you have never told anyone

  • Midlife questions about purpose and direction

  • Feeling disconnected from your partner, your kids, or yourself

Ready to get started?

The first step is a free 15-minute call. Tell me what is going on, and I will give you my honest appraisal about whether I am the right fit.

Serving men in Kansas City, Overland Park, Prairie Village, and the surrounding metro. Office in the West Bottoms. Online sessions available.